Damarius and Jim were originally paired in the School Based program and would meet at Damarius’ school every week. Together, they would play board games, go to the computer lab, read together and work on math. Damarius especially enjoyed the times Jim would bring him McDonald’s!
Fast forward to May 2012, when Jim and Damarius decided to expand their friendship in order to continue seeing each other during the summer break. Jim approached Big Brothers Big Sisters with the idea of meeting during the school breaks after he received a thank you note from Damarius. In the note, Damarius mentioned how he didn't like when summer comes around because he likes seeing Jim every week. Big Brothers Big Sisters made the arrangements with Jim, Damarius and Damarius’ mother to give this match the opportunity to see each other outside of school by transferring the match from School Based to School Based Plus.
Fast forward again to present day. Jim and Damarius are still chugging along meeting every week in school, as well as frequent visits outside of school. They continue to focus on Damarius’ homework and education during their visits, but also enjoy grabbing a hamburger together, working on household projects and attending UNI games. Jim can be found in the bleachers cheering Damarius on at his own athletic events.
Damarius, now a sophomore in high school, values his time with Jim a great deal. He appreciates the support and guidance he receives from his Big Brother, especially relating to his education. Jim has taught Damarius several life lessons along the way and continue to fuel Damarius’ interest of cooking by teaching him new recipes and giving him the opportunity to cook during their time together.
Reflecting back on the last six years with Jim, Damarius says the following, “The last few years have been great. It has really changed my life because right now I wouldn't be doing so good. I used to always be angry all the time, but then I started smiling more and being happy. Now I’m happy all the time.” Damarius looks forward to his future ahead and tells Big Brothers Big Sisters his future will be one that steers away from violence, drugs and other negative factors. Damarius believes that with his Big Brother by his side, anything is possible.
