Match Spotlight: Jennifer and Caitlyn

Four years ago Little Sister, Caitlyn, was troubled with adjusting to her parents divorce, and having her family live hours away from one another. Caitlyn didn't know where to turn.  She needed someone who could side with her, be a listener, confidant, provide their unbiased opinion, but be a friend too.

At that point Caitlyn's mom, Terry, reached out to Big Brothers Big Sisters. Caitlyn was matched with Jennifer in November of 2008.  They had an immediate bond and from there their relationship grew.  They often would get their nails done together, chat over a warm beverage at Starbucks, hang out at the park, or take in activities provided by Big Brothers Big Sisters.

Over the years, this experience has provided Caitlyn with an opportunity to put everyday life, and concerns, on hold.  This was a time every week she could hang out with Jennifer and do whatever they felt like doing.  Their bond grew and Caitlyn felt comfortable sharing anything with Jennifer, whether they talked about boys, school, family or any issue that arose - this was exactly what Terry wanted out of this relationship for her daughter, and more.  "I love your program and it is very enriching...it is a wonderful way for a child to have a confidant.  I really, really think a lot of Jennifer.  She has truly enriched the life of my daughter!"

The confidence and support that Caitlyn has received from both her mother and her Big Sister, Jennifer, has made her feel she can conquer anything.  Caitlyn is a hard worker, maintains straight A's in school and is involved in almost every activity she can find: soccer, softball, choir, ice skating, gymnastics and much more.  Her relationship with her Big Sister helped to instill confidence and faith in herself to pursue all the things she dreams of doing.

Unfortunately, on the flip side of her high involvement in activities, Caitlyn no longer has the time to get together with Jennifer as often as they'd both like.  Despite their mutual desire to continue to maintain their Big Brothers Big Sisters relationship, their match needed to close a few months ago.  The relationship simply grew past the realm of Big Brothers Big Sisters, and they are no longer in need of the support and assistance with the formation of their friendship.

Their Match Coordinator says, "This is the best way for a match to close.  It's not that something was wrong, it's because everything was wonderful!"  Even though the match has ended it's time with Big Brothers Big Sisters, the friendship between Caitlyn and Jennifer will last a lifetime.  This experience has been a mutually beneficial relationship for all involved, and Terry is forever thankful that she enrolled Caitlyn in the Big Brothers Big Sisters program, "Jennifer filled a void in Caitlyn's life!"

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